You should be watching The New Girl

What are you watching on TV these days?

I am watching The New Girl.

And so should you. Right now. Seriously.

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1. It has Zooey Deschanel . No other reason necessary.

2. The writers blow every other show in the past decade out of the water

3. The show Redefines humor.

4. I told you to and I am like birth control 99% effective.

5. You need something to do on tuesdays at 8pm central. I know you do.

It has been years since I have laughed the way I laugh when I am watching this show. It not only allows me to laugh, it completely relaxes my soul. After watching The New Girl all of the darkness of my week is washed away. For once a show on TV is about stepping away from the harsh reality of the world and jumping into a reminder of all that is wonderful.

I am not cute damn it.

I am petite, thin,  and “cute as a button” giving me quite the innocent look.

This pisses me off. And has since I was a kid.

I AM NOT CUTE! DAMNIT! I am edgy and dangerous.

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I promise






damn, no I’m not.

This would not be a problem, except people laugh at me. All the time. Literally.

Why blog about this today? If this is a life long problem. I walk into work and go to my department head to let them know I got a new tattoo and it is visible. I am allowed to show my tattoos as long as they are tasteful. What was her response and the response of a co worker. Laughter. For five minutes. Followed by you are just so funny. Why? Because I just don’t look like a girl that would get tattoos, so me enjoying getting tattoos is just ridiculous.


This post is for all of us out there that are tired of being considered completely ridiculous by simply being ourselves.

No matter how many times they laugh, write you off, or dismiss you, stand tall! Be proud!